I cant think of any bears per se. This is standard Windows stuff. A lot of applications use it for varying purposes. Like virus protection programs monitoring specific folders or text editors detecting when an open file was modified externally and asking if you want to refresh to view the changes.
To me it is simply a matter of preference. You can either set the monitoring "on", and have the changes refresh incrementally, or you can have it "off" and choose to refresh in bulk when you are ready. Either way, in the end, it is the same amount of work for MusicBee. Just a matter of when it happens. My opinion is that "on" should be the default. New users would find this more intuitive as how they might imagine it should work...