That depends on precisely what information you want to be displayed.
My suggestion will produce a list of all tracks that are in either Playlist X or in Playlist Y but not in both. The playlist configuration should look like this:

Two rules:
1. Will produce a list of tracks that are in Playlist X, but not in Playlist Y
2. Will produce a list of tracks that are in Playlist Y, but not in Playlist X
The 'match any' setting essentially results in a list of tracks that adhere to either rule 1 OR rule 2.
I believe you are thinking about it like this:
Match
ALL:
<Playlist> IS Playlist X
<Playlist> IS NOT Playlist Y

which will only produce a list of tracks that are in Playlist X but not in Playlist Y