I really don't want to be delving in to skin stuff for the sake of one colour. I was hoping I could just grab a modified foreground colour on one of the elements I can retrieve and then users could just set that colour in their skin.xml to whatever they wanted. But it seems the modified element state doesn't work.
Since nobody (but me) has specified in what location he is or wants to be using the VU meter, I have to do some guessing.
These are probably the most likely positions:

These would require getting the bg values of:
1
"Panel.ChildBody.Default"
2
"Content[Artwork].Body.Default"
(Album Covers view)
"Content[TrackDetail].Body.Default"
(Album and Tracks view)
3
"ElementPanel.Default"
Also, I think the Now Playing panel would be a good view to be able to have the VU meter in.
That's currently not possible, but anticipating on a request for that to happen:
4 Now Playing
"NowPlayingList[TrackDetail].Default"
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If you are reluctant to have the option to choose between these colours, perhaps another approach might be to avoid these borders showing up to begin with by having the VU meter panel dynamically adjust its height to the height of the VU meter's background image?
(not sure if that's even possible)
I really hope you'll be able to figure something out, since it's just not looking good with a mismatching background colour, and the need to very precisely drag the panel to a specific size to hide it for every other VU meter is no fun.
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Or, if I am the only one that cares about this, have it using "ElementPanel.Default" as the default colour, and I'll never bother you again about it…