I've actually just joined music bee today, I've read about it before and today I was just tired of how bad the default windows player (Grove) is. I have a ton of music that I'd like to manage as easily as I manage Spotify, so I'll give this a go and come back to you on that one.
I think you're right about music management being male oriented, but I've had girl friends that are just as anal as me about tagging music correctly, there's nothing worse than music tracks without tags, drives me up the wall. But then again I'm stupid organised and a bit OCD (which is helpful as a photographer with thousands upon thousands of shots and processes to go through) about my digital life, so I might be an exception.
I'll be working from home today just listening to my music, so I'll let you know how Music Bee feels to me.
Photographer by day, derp gamer by night.