You say you read the instructions and can't get anything to work. Exactly what instructions did you read? There are a number of threads dealing with syncing to Apple devices, so you should be a little more specific as to what you tried. And when you don't understand the instructions, post your plea for help on that thread.
There's an iphone/ipod driver plugin in the Plugins/Add-ons section. There are also helpful hints in the Tips & Tricks section. Use the MB dedication Google search link in my signature as it's much better than the forums search box.