All I want to be able to do is listen to music on my android, set the rating and see it in music bee on my desktop. Why is this being so difficult?
I don't know what to say, but as far as I know no programs can do such a thing except a few that have their own PC / mobile versions. MB will be the first Windows program that supports 2-way sync with GMMP and PowerAmp when Steven finishes developing the feature. So don't say like it's a universal feature all other programs easily support.
Regarding your issue, did you try resetting your storage setting? Also try deleting the device profile from the Preferences> Devices and reconnect your phone after restarting MB to see if that helps.
If the issue persists, report your issue on the Steven's wifi sync thread.