Maybe Media Monkey? Basically, unless you have an android player and a desktop player that are made to work together, which Media Monkey does, you're going to be out of luck on two-way syncing. It's been discussed elsewhere in the forum; basically, the technology is there to sync play counts and maybe other info with Android, but none of the existing players use it for some reason.
I'm hoping to work on a solution for MusicBee at some point, but it will probably be a while yet.