So, I disabled defender (anyway to uninstall completely), turned on net tcp (the rest were already running), and copied over another album.
By the time the copy & verify (I use teracopy) was finished, the files were waiting i my inbox
. That's how it should be.
I'll add some more later, to make sure it wasn't just a fluke.
I'm also thinking about turning on the auto-organise. What sort of can of worms am I opening there? (does it make copies of the existing file, or just move the current ones - do the originals remain in place? How long can I expect it to take (I shouldn't do this over wifi right)? From what I remember, doing this with itunes, I ended up with 2 copies of all my music (originals - which I later deleted, and the organised folder)
<edit> Well, it seems that if I have musicbee running before/while I copy the files over, they appear in my inbox almost immediately. But if I copy the files first, and then launch mb later and let it find them on its own, it take a strangely long time. Oh so close.